Christmas Eve 2010

Description is in my entry.

Photos - December days (2010)

These photos were imported from my old blog address. The import job has jumbled all the photos and removed all captions. So sorry for this. 

You can also view the album on my Google photos.

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Dec 22
Sáng: một ngày rảnh rỗi, ngủ dậy thấy tóc đẹp đẹp hơn bình thường nên hứng lên auto một mớ. :P
Chiều: như đã viết trong entry.

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Dec 31, 2010: buổi sáng cuối cùng của năm 2010. ___

Photos - A November full of surprise

I'm so lucky to have such lovely students ^^ Thank you so muchhhhhhh :X

November 2010

Fond memories & My portrait

Date: October 16, 2010

I visited my Dad, asked him to take some photos and teach me to play the guitar...

Photos Oct 20, 2010

Album này là hình tuần trước. Up kèm với entry ... đang viết ^^

2 tuần mà 3 cái đám cưới....

Happiness

Surfing the net, reading this and that and I come across this article. It really speaks for the jumbled thoughts in my head these days. Share it with you.

"What is the purpose of life? It is to become happy. 

You yourself know best whether you are feeling joy or struggling with suffering. These things are not known to other people. Even a man who has great wealth, social recognition and many awards may still be shadowed by indescribable suffering deep in his heart. On the other hand, an elderly woman who is not fortunate financially, leading a simple life alone, may feel the sun of joy and happiness rising in her heart each day. 

Happiness is not a life without problems, but rather the strength to overcome the problems that come our way. There is no such thing as a problem-free life; difficulties are unavoidable. But how we experience and react to our problems depends on us. Buddhism teaches that we are each responsible for our own happiness or unhappiness. Our vitality - the amount of energy or "life-force" we have - is in fact the single most important factor in determining whether or not we are happy. 

True happiness is to be found within, in the state of our hearts. It does not exist on the far side of some distant mountains. It is within you, yourself. However much you try, you can never run away from yourself. And if you are weak, suffering will follow you wherever you go. You will never find happiness if you don't challenge your weaknesses and change yourself from within.
My teacher used to talk about two kinds of happiness - "relative" and "absolute" happiness.Relative happiness is happiness that depends on things outside ourselves: friends and family, surroundings, the size of our home or family income. 

This is what we feel when a desire is fulfilled, or something we have longed for is obtained. While the happiness such things bring us is certainly real, the fact is that none of this lasts forever. Things change. People change. This kind of happiness shatters easily when external conditions alter. 

Relative happiness is also based on comparison with others. We may feel this kind of happiness at having a newer or bigger home than the neighbors. But that feeling turns to misery the moment they start making new additions to theirs!  


Absolute happiness, on the other hand, is something we must find within. It means establishing a state of life in which we are never defeated by trials and where just being alive is a source of great joy. This persists no matter what we might be lacking, or what might happen around us. A deep sense of joy is something which can only exist in the innermost reaches of our life, and which cannot be destroyed by any external forces. It is eternal and inexhaustible.

This kind of satisfaction is to be found in consistent and repeated effort, so that we can say, "Today, again, I did my very best. Today, again, I have no regrets. Today, again, I won." The accumulated result of such efforts is a life of great victory.

What we should compare is not ourselves against others. We should compare who we are today against who we were yesterday, who we are today against who we will be tomorrow. While this may seem simple and obvious, true happiness is found in a life of constant advancement. And the same worries that could have made us miserable can actually be a source of growth when we approach them with courage and wisdom.              

       A person with a vast heart is happy.     
        Such a person lives each day with a broad and embracing spirit. 
  
       A person with a strong will is happy.     
        Such a person can confidently enjoy life, never defeated by suffering.  
  
       A person with a profound spirit is happy.     
          Such a person can savor life's depths     
             while creating meaning and value that will last for eternity.  
  
       A person with a pure mind is happy.     
         Such a person is always surrounded by refreshing breezes of joy.
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(adapted from  http://www.ikedaquotes.org/what-is-happiness.html )  

Some pics - August + September 2010

Dạo này nhiều chuyện xảy đến. Nhiều nước mắt. Nhiều cảm xúc. Nhiều yêu thương. Mình không blog. Cũng không có hình gì mới.
Learning by living.
Up vài tấm ảnh hồi 1, 2 tháng trước coi như để blog đỡ bị bỏ hoang ^^

Photos - Summer vacation July 2010

 auto-shots =P

These photos were imported from my old blog address. The import job has jumbled all the photos and removed all captions. You can also view the album on my Google photos.

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